If you’re in network marketing you’ve got to have the mind of a warrior! So many times there are people that will try and pull you back because they are living a vanilla, mediocre life. And you succeeding makes them very uncomfortable. It means they have to look in the mirror and examine why and they are not living more out of their own life. So, you will have these people that try and tear you down with her words. They try to sabotage your success. They tell you that you can’t do it. And they basically are a huge deflator in your life and business. How should we deal with these people and what should we do about it?
===Summary===
4 Ways to Overcome Sabotagers
So lets talk about four ways that you can overcome the sabotagers in your life!
Number One: Limit Your Association. If there are people that pull you down or rain on your parade, don’t spend much time with them!
Number Two: Discipline Your Disappointments. This is key! You must learn to run your emotions, if not they will run you!
Number 3: Decide to Choose how You will Respond. One the greatest gifts we have is the ability to choose. No matter what happens in life, how you respond to it is always up to you!
Number Four: Create a Support System. Create your fan club of people that will cheer you on to run towards your dreams and goals! Watch the video below and scroll down for the full blog!
Here is the link mentioned in this video: 4 ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS to ATTRACTING PROSPECTS TO YOU on Social Media These are things that I use all of the time! Download the MP3 and You can begin attracting Prospects ASAP! I know this will help and I am excited for the results you will get!
There is much more to come! I will be sharing on going business principles to Increase your Leadership, Maximize Results and help you become a TOP EARNER!!
Be Blessed & Live Victorious!
[social_warfare]
Also —are we connected on Social Media?
If not, lets Friend Up on the Socials!
And if you are a Video Buff check out my new You Tube Channel! I have lots of great MLM Training Videos so feel free to Subscribe to stay in the loop and get the latest!
PS- Here are some images you can use as well! Also see below for the Full Blog Post!
===Full Blog===
If you’re in network marketing you’ve got to have the mind of a warrior! So many times there are people that will try and pull you back because they are living a vanilla, mediocre life. And you succeeding makes them very uncomfortable. It means they have to look in the mirror and examine why and they are not living more out of their own life. So, you will have these people that try and tear you down with her words. They try to sabotage your success. They tell you that you can’t do it. And they basically are a huge deflator in your life and business. How should we deal with these people and what should we do about it?
The Crabs…
So I recently heard a story about crabs. I’m not a fisherman but I thought it was quite interesting. So if somebody is out there in there trying to catch crabs. If they put one crab in a bucket that wont work. Because the crab will claw and fight and do everything it possibly can to fight its way out. 
However, if you put two crabs in a bucket– You’re good to go! Why? It doesn’t matter how hard one tries, the other will claw and hold it back. I don’t have first hand experience with crabs being like this, but I know people for sure are!
4 Ways to Overcome Sabotagers
So lets talk about four ways that you can overcome the sabotagers in your life!
Number One: Limit Your Association. Oftentimes it’s the people at work, or your long time friends, that seem to be the biggest deflators of all! You are pushing, you are striving, you are ready to get ahead. And every time you have something good or you have a goal in mind. They always have something negative to say about how it won’t work for you or why you shouldn’t do it! Booooooo! These are just the type of people we need to limit our time with or remove all together.
Number Two: Discipline Your Disappointments. This is key! Especially when it comes to prospecting, recruiting, and showing your business to others. Sometimes it’s easy to get very excited about one particular prospect. Lets say there’s been somebody on your list… You finally get the guts to contact them. You meeting with them and you’re banking on them getting started. But when you meet with them and they just don’t get it. It goes way over their head. The timing is not right for them. Or they even say something negative to discourage you. Whenever these situations happen you’ve got to discipline your disappointments.
It’s easy in network marketing to let your emotions run all over the place. You get super excited because somebody’s ready to go and you know they could be amazing. But when they come in and do nothing then your emotions drop to the ground. And you’re not quite sure what to do next. Do not let your emotions run you. Many times people ride the emotional roller coaster. And they feel exhausted in their business! You’ve got to be steady, unwavering, not moving all over the place with your emotions. Just be steady and consistent.
Often times we get people that might have the “Big Mouth Frog Syndrome”. They talk a good game, but nothing shows up in the back office. Do you know what I’m talking about? I think we have all had 1 or 2 like this! Here is the key… Watch their Feet and Not their Mouth. Watch what they actually DO! Not what they say they’re going to do. And don’t get overly excited about any one person.
Out of all the things that have helped me in business this is one of the greatest. You need to keep your emotions cool and calm. You need to keep your head focus and in the game. Remember this – you can chose to run your emotions or your emotions can run you! If your emotions are running you all over the board it’s going to be very challenging!
Number 3: Decide to Choose how You will Respond. Undoubtedly in your venture to the top of your company, there will be challenges. There will be obstacles. However, it is how you respond to those situations that will make all the difference! The great news is we can choose! It doesn’t matter what happens to you… You always have a choice as to what emotion you decide to respond with.
Victor Frankel says– “The last of human freedoms – the ability to chose one’s attitude in a given set of circumstances.”
This is coming from a man who spent a portion of his life in a Nazi Concentration camp. WOW! How Powerful!
Tony Robbins says the quality of your life, is the quality of the emotions that you live on a daily basis. Oftentimes we are pre-wired in our habits and how we respond to certain situations. The next time something happens that you did not quite expect, or something very upsetting takes place. Take a step back. Cool your head. And decide how you’re going to respond to it. At the end of the day you still have the opper
tunity to choose! You can let it get you all bent out of shape. Or you can choose which emotion you respond with. You’re in charge!
Number Four: Create a Support System. It is very easy for us to naturally be surrounded with the crabby people. It takes a bit more effort to get the positive influencers in your life. You need to be intentional about setting up your support system and removing the negative people out of your life. You need people that can lift you up. They can speak LIFE over your dreams and ideas! They can be there to support you if you ever get down. They can encourage you and say “ You Got This!”
A support system is awesome! Sometimes it is very easy to feel like you are “The Lone Ranger” out there. But the truth of the matter is, there are millions and millions of people that are pushing ahead and striving for success in their business! Connect with some like-minded people. Use them as encouragers in your life! Be accountable to each other! And create a beautiful support system so the next time you need a pickup you know just who to call!
PS– I do “Live” Trainings on Facebook! Here is how to Join the Party! Just update your settings and you will know when I jump on! Click Here
PS- Are you looking for a way to make things go faster? Are you considering coaching? Check out the Work with Summer Tab and perhaps we should talk!